【小資女學英文】11點「藍顏知己」必須成為男朋友的理由 | 學習 | Tiya

每個人表達感情的方式不同,有人較熱情奔放,喜歡就要大聲說出來 ; 但也有人走比較低調、內斂的路線,喜歡在背後默默支持對方,覺得他的快樂就是自己的一切,不論是否擁有。相較之下,後者的感情似乎更為偉大, 一心在身旁支持自己所愛,而人生中能有幾個這種人?以下就要告訴你,11個好好把握那個「他」的理由。

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11 Reasons Why The Guy Who Waited For You Is The Guy You Should Love

11點「藍顏知己」必須成為男朋友的理由

Every girl has a guy in the background, a guy who’s been waiting around, hoping to be noticed. This is not to be confused with the guys who are in the friend zone. Women only put guys in the friend zone whom they are not attracted to. Sorry guys, but it’s true.

每個女孩背後都有默默的護花使者,始終在你周圍且渴望被注意到,但這些人被歸類在「朋友圈」中一點也不意外,因為女人把對自己沒吸引力的人當成朋友看待。雖然聽起來很殘酷,但卻很真實。

No, I’m talking about that guy you’ve been friends with for years; the one you’ve kissed a few times while drunk but never really took seriously. You had him on the bench and probably didn’t even realize you did.

但今天我們要討論的是你多年以來的知己,記得妳在喝醉時和他的接吻、在長椅上發生的事情嗎?似乎真有點什麼,但你從未認真看待。

He’s the guy who has always been your friend, but never your boyfriend. He’s the one who’s coached you through various romantic and sexual endeavors, the one who’s held your hand during the worst of times and the best of times.

他是你的超級好友,但從未變成男朋友 ; 他曾教導你那些關於浪漫、性愛的事情,也是在發生最好與最壞事件時陪著你的人。

coach:教導

endeavors:努力

He’s the guy who waited for you — the guy who waited for you to be ready to be his one and only.

他是那個一直等著你的人-等待你成為他的唯一。

This is no new trend; this happens all the time. The greatest power couples are born from this male habit of lurking.

這並不是什麼新的趨向,因為類似情形總是在發生,牽絆最牢靠的戀人往往從知心好友開始的。

lurk:潛伏

Think about it.Kanye waited around for Kim for years. She got married, built her career up, got divorced — all the while staying close friends with Kanye.

 想想看這個案例吧,Kanye總是陪在Kim的身邊,從她結婚、事業蒸蒸日上、離婚的這些人生歷程一直都在。

He waited patiently. After a lot of struggle and hardship, Kim woke up and realized, “Wow, Kanye is the one for me. I get it now.”

他的等待是如此有耐心,經過各種磨練和打擊後,Kim才知道,原來一直陪在身邊的Kanye才是最適合自己的人

The same thing happened with Jay and Bey. He was there waiting to be her BAE while she was still in Destiny’s Child! She wasn’t even Sasha Fierce yet. That’s commitment.

相同的例子也發生在Jay 和 Bey身上,Jay一直在等待成為Bey最重要的他。

The rest, of course, is history.

 Does this sound familiar? It should. The guy who waited in the background is the guy who is right for you, he just wasn’t right for you at that exact moment you met. Trust me, he met you, realized you were the one he’d end up with and waited for his chance.

這些聽起來很耳熟嗎?當然。那個一直在等你的人,恰恰是最適合你的。你們只是沒有在精確的時間點相遇,相信我,他知道自己是你相思到老的對象,並且一直耐心等待。

 

以下這11點原因,讓你再也沒有理由拒絕那個他!

1. He knows what you’re about.

他知道你的一切

He knows what you value and care about. What is important to you is important to him — and not just to please you.

他知道你的價值觀,任何你重視的也會是他在意的,而絕不是想討好你。

Please:迎合

2. He’s watched you mature and grow.

他看著你從青澀到成熟的過程

3. His beauty is much more than skin deep.

他的魅力來自於,內在他不是只有肉體的吸引力,源自內心的善良和知性更加吸引你。

4. He’s committed AF

他對你絕對忠誠

5. He wants you because of your past, not in spite of it.

他不會因為你的過去而覺得不堪

Your past isn’t something he finds shame in but instead, something he finds substance in. It’s what makes you, you.

過去成就了你這個人,而他不會因你的過去感到羞恥,反而也是愛你的原因之一。

6. He’ll be a great boyfriend.

他會是一個超棒的男朋友!

7. He’s no mediocre hunter.

他不會是個無趣的獵者

You’re his prey, the gazelle to his lion.

在愛情世界中,獅子如他,而你是獵物-羚羊。

8. He knows you better than anyone.

他知道你比其他人都棒太多了!

Who could know you better than he does? He wants all of you. He’s been in your life longer than any other Tom, Dick or Harry.

誰能比他更了解你?他幾乎知道你的全部,比起其他進入你生命中短短幾週、幾個月的小王、小李,他實在了解太多。

9. He’s clearly not just interested in your body.

他不只是對你的身體有興趣

He wants you for your mind, your intellect and what you bring to the world around you. If he were only interested in getting it in, he wouldn’t have stuck around.

他同樣喜愛你的想法、知性和其他生命中的種種過程,如果他對這些不感興趣,才不會陪在你身邊這麼久。

10. He clearly has the patience to deal with you.

對你有無比的耐心

11. He’s seen you at your worst.

他看過你所有醜態

You should never commit to a man who can’t handle you at your worst, drunkest, sloppiest, lowest, hot mess moment.

沒看過一個男人面對你的酒後詩礦、生命低潮、混亂生活時,絕對別輕易把自己託付給他。

 

以上11點讓編輯默默想到死心踏地的「大仁哥」…多少人一生中都在尋找這樣的男人阿!

有時候我們太專心的尋找心目中的「白馬王子」,反而會忽略身邊更重要的對象,其實深諳自己脾氣、氣味相投的知心朋友反而更適合也說不定呢!

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